Start to Be More Interesting
Start to Be More Interesting
Humans are creatures of habit. We love to establish a routine and stick with it. Then we often put ourselves on auto-pilot.
Routines can be incredibly useful in helping you get things done. However, too much of a routine can also make you incredibly boring.
Nevertheless, many people live lives that are boringly predictable, or live a life where everything is outlined or planned.
Well guess what? Life doesn’t always work out the way you plan it. You must be able to go with the flow regardless of whether you have a plan or not. My life is not even close to what I thought it would be like a year ago. How could I have known what was going to happen? How can you?
So, how not to be boring and start to be more interesting?
Face your fear of uncertainties and start to be more spontaneous. And in this article, I will show you how.
1. Create an Environment That Fosters Spontaneity
It’s scary to let go of your plans because then, you are inviting all kinds of uncertainty into your life. In fact, fear is the root of most spontaneity problems. By conquering those fears, you can become less dependent on your plans and live a far more interesting life.
Ask Your Friends If You Are Too Predictable
Ask your friends if you are too predictable. It might be awkward to ask, but listen to them closely for the answer.
The people who know you well are in a better position to give you this information, and they might see some areas where you can improve that you might not consider yourself.
Let Go of Limiting Beliefs
During your life, you have picked up beliefs that may hold you back. If you think it is “weird” to talk to a stranger, or that you’ll mess up if you try to do something differently, you have a limiting belief.
